Open Heart

Is it a risk to open our heart to someone we love but no matter what happened this person cannot love us back as the way we are expecting nor wanted it to be??... Most of us will agree that it is a stupid act. Its too risky due to the fact that we really don't know of what would be the outcome... It can be beneficial or devastating on our part. It could shatter our heart and destroy our spirit. It is hard to pick up the pieces of our selves and pretend that everything is alright but deep inside we want to scream from the top of our lungs that everything is not tolerable as the way it should be.

Love can give us more reasons to wake up in the morning smiling and feeling so good to live,, but it can also poison our existence. This powerful four letter word can craft a better person,, but if not handled appropriately can turn the person pungent. It is not easy to mend a broken heart... Time cannot heal the wound,, and no matter where we go and what we do,, the twinge is there and keeps lingering in our minds... That is why most of us are afraid to open our heart due to the fact that we don't want to be exposed and vulnerable.

I admire those persons who opened their heart for their courage of taking the peril... Taking the risk is like riding on a wild roller coaster ride... It's painful and demoralizing but in the end it's a wonderful ride... What defines a person is on how he picks himself and stand up after the fall.

No matter where the wind take us,, we must go on with our life because there are lot of opportunities and reasons to live... Life is too short so don't waste it... In short my dear friends,, pray harder that there is a special person that is willing to commit a lifetime union with us... A union that will encourage optimal intellect,, emotional and spiritual growth... And if it does not come,, find your solace... Always remember,, there's dignity in being alone but,, we should remain true to our self and never stop on loving....